Lately I have been doing nothing but readings regarding ‘Love’. I’ve never been a fan reading for someone regarding this subject. I always feign “…it’s not a strong suit of mine…” but if I’m being honest with you, I just don’t think figuring out your love life is truly worth asking the other side about unless everything else in your life is on point.

When you come to me for a reading about love, you will more than likely get a reading in regards to what is preventing love. Could it be old habits that you have yet to identify? Or possibly you refuse to acknowledge? Maybe you find yourself dating the same personality over and over again. One way or another, if you’re not finding love, there is a reason…and I find it’s rarely ever the reason we normally look at.

When coming to me for such a reading, be prepared for a specific set of questions. These questions are essential to help create the best reading for you. The following are the ones most likely you’ll get from me:

1. Are you in a relationship currently?
2. If so, do you and your significant other have an open dialogue? Do you openly discuss your relationship with one another, before seeking outside advice?
3. Have you taken all measurements to ensure that neither of you acquire a wandering eye?
4. How much do you honestly trust and love yourself?

Why do I ask that final question? We all too often forget to love ourselves, and remember how essential it is to recognize what love feels like from another. RuPaul says it best ‘If you don’t love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?’ All too often what we seek is companionship, and all too often we don’t get to know the other person(s) we are seeking it from. Following that pathway is certain to end with heartache. Heartache leads you to me, or other such readers.

I’m not a man who will tell you what you want to hear. I’m a man that will tell you what you need to hear. I don’t mean to make you cry, I don’t mean to cause offense, I do however mean to bring you into a place of greater acceptance within yourself and for yourself. My end game is to help you find the right partner-in-crime to move through life with that both of you lift one another up and keep the darkness of the world at bay.

In conclusion, be prepared should you come to me with questions regarding ‘love’, I am honest and I will not lie nor mislead you.